Parents often ask the same question after an otherwise intelligent teen makes a less than favorable judgement call at school, among peers, or in social situations. In early education setting and even middle school impulsive behaviors that are relatively harmless are more easily dismissed. Forgetting chores, getting behind on class assignments, testing boundaries with rules. While these are all age appropriate, challenges can become consequential as our children age, their personalities develop and life begins to feel more real to them.

Fights with peers (physical or social) and pressure to perform, can have an impact not only impulse control but the biological and neurological systems resulting in actions that leave adults asking...

"They know better. Why would they do that?"

Read on to learn how stress, peer presence, and time pressure shape teen decision-making, and why judgment is a skill that can be trained.

Women’s self-defense programs are often evaluated by intensity, empowerment language, or endurance. This article examines why those measures frequently fail to produce reliable real-world safety skills, drawing on injury epidemiology, training design, and nervous system learning to identify what actually works.

The nervous system is not an obstacle to self defense, rather, it is the foundation of it. When teens understand how their brain and body respond to stress, they gain leverage, and when self defense classes align with real physiology, students learn skills that hold up under pressure, not just in controlled environments.

Self-defense is often discussed in terms of capability. In practice, it is evaluated in terms of judgment. Training systems differ not only in what they teach, but in what they prepare people to recognize, when force is necessary, when it must stop, and how actions will be interpreted afterward.

Let's get into 3 real life situations experienced in the Central Florida area and briefly discuss how-to protect yourself, your community, and loved ones with evidence based training you won't find in any martial arts or karate dojo.

The following safety brief includes:
・Alcohol Related Incidents
・Property Crime
・Human Trafficking
・Evidence Based Safety

Q: My child’s karate class already teaches self defense. What is the difference between this program and what my child is already enrolled in?

There is no doubt that after school activities are important but for parent's who desire solution oriented physical activity with fun, learning, and a partner in parenting we encourage you to explore the youth program at Shaan Saar Krav Maga! Our family has loved martial arts and has trained in multiple disciplines all over the world for decades. However, as threat management and criminal behavior professionals our experience and education has taught us (sometimes the hard way) that recreational martial arts educators and classes do little, if anything, to prepare anyone for the volatile reality of real world violence.

But sometimes life just does not go as planned and we need to strategize around the unexpected twists and turn life throws at us, illness, and injury. When we face difficulties or challenges, it's common to lose our motivation and fall off track. This is because adversity can disrupt our focus and confidence, making it harder to stay committed to our goals.

Don't give up!

Shaan Saar Krav Maga is here to help you build psychological flexibility, a key driver to building resilience, a growth mindset, and practical techniques for stress management.

The study of threat management and security is extensive. Here we offer 5 tips for safety as collected during our families over 70 years in military, federal, law enforcement, national security, and criminal psychology.

Seeking self defense classes in Orlando? Read this blog post from our Board Certified Threat Management Specialist and Israeli CQB Krav Maga Instructor to equip you with the knowledge of what to look for when it comes to finding a great Krav Maga school.

Trauma-Informed Self Defense™ is not a trend or a softer version of martial arts training. It is a structured, evidence-informed framework designed to teach self defense in a way that remains accessible under stress. Grounded in physiology and learning science, the program is built to increase skill transfer when it matters most.